After the baby is born, many expectant mothers find that formerly close friendships become loose. What should we pay attention to, what should we be open to, what do we understand in ourselves and in friends so that this period does not mean the end of friendship?Try to save the friendship!"I was 32 when my first baby boy was born. I used to meet my friends several times a week, and that didn't change my family. But having a small one didn't make much sense to me. I focused on the sleep that came and then the visits of others became less frequent, "says Anikou, who has been a mother of two since then. She says that at first, It would have been just fine because the kid was asleep, the grandmother had laid, her husband was home. "Over time, I realized that a part is in a completely different life situation than I and I can't expect to put everything in my schedule.I knew that as much as I was able to do in the first few months, I also needed to be more flexible "- telling me about the experience, noting that, after a few years, mixed with remorse and reproach. "We have all realized that things, like us, change and much more awareness, intent, and planning to get things done the way we want"says Anikou about how the second child arrived to make this period smooth in terms of friendships. What can be done to get it done the first time around?