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Duck Age: So Filled!


When you are born with a small, whirlwind, warm packet after childbirth, you certainly do not think that two to three (and then thirteen) years will be incredibly difficult times in your life.

How to avoid the racket?

Toddler and toddler ... What's the deal with this two era? It's that kid then try to settle, and is constantly working to find out how long you can go - usually with more freedom or training than you think of as a native speaker. The biennial wants to get the right to do something and get it right. Thirteen years is lazy, demented, but in addition to time (and in some cases, money), you have the right to dispose of it. he wants to do everything aloneand as soon as possible. Be limited because you do not have the appropriate physical skills, experience, and often not enoughto cross the picture. The adolescent is in a similar shoe, she also has a "greater will" than her potential. This situation is further aggravated by the fact that the two-year-old wants to know that adults know what he or she wants, but they just don't want to understand it. Adolescents, however, eventually come to the realization that all adults are frail, and that it is not worth explaining things. communication disorder tбrsul. There is no other way: the foolish - or the adolescents, the nonsense, the passive resistance. less often, it becomes pale. The symptom is known to practitioners as affective apnea (emotional apnea). If this is the case, it is worth consulting a physician because, although it is mostly harmless, only a special condition and an ECG finding can induce a special type of cardiac arrhythmia. If "hysterics" are regular, well, if you turn to a child psychologist. The symptom can be a physical manifestation of a serious mental problem.

He wants order

According to most parents, the hijab comes just like a lightning strike. You can, of course, choose to put a red heartbeat in your glass instead of a blue one, if the left swing is in the player, or the fourth time (in my mind) is not to say the Babbit verses in the same order. These grown-up originals are believed to be of pristine origin, they insist on steadfastness.For twenty years, we look immensely immaculate about the color of the swing, whether the two swings rock the same way, and from the aspect of anesthesia, it is almost irrelevant whether Bubita dances or plays first. This is not the case with a two-headed head. The second-year pal is just in trouble to tidy up a lot of newly gathered science to be able to work in this hectic, changing world of things! Bubbit dances first, then plays, sleeps, and sleeps afterwards. The heart must be the usual blue, the swing and the worn left! However, it is often the case that the child keeps it parent inconsistency, find its weaknesses. If the adult is uncertain, so is the child! However, in this age, small things need more security. If one day it is possible to fall asleep in the living room in front of the father, but the other day you have to be alone in the grumpy bed, if one day you may miss brushing your teeth, and the other day you have to regret your sleep. right here. So try to persuade your parents to push the boundaries to set the rules. Adults (most of all) have some kind of rules. This is what regulates their actions, and it helps them to grow in life. The kid still doesn't have one - he just wants to make it. During the transition period, there is a great need for adult guidance in recognizing where the boundaries are, what the rules are. In practice, this does not mean that one day we need to introduce a prosaic order to the other. Let's think about which rules are important to us and to them let's stick to it consistently. But break down the barriers to nothing if we are not sure if the child or family will ever benefit.

Key: patience

Such a useless limit, for example, is when we tell the kid beforehand that it won't work for you. You can't eat alone, you can't drink alone, you can't put on your socks, you can't help in the mop, you can't press the button in the elevator, you can't find yourself in the keyhole. But why not? Why not succeed? What is not dangerous and does not cause harm can all be rewarded. In many ways, it is good to let it go. One, because it is becoming so. How do you learn things by practice as well? Note: So you have your confidence. Instead of "you still don't know this", it's much better to hear it: help me if you don't, help. And for a very simple reason: we break a hysteria, and it's a more economical solution. How's the economy coming here? If the seedling receives the house key and then opens the door with his help or with our help, it may take a little longer than a little. However, if the child is denied the opportunity to exercise, he or she is likely to begin a nerve-racking ball. That little wastage of time is worth it. We can fifty percent of the histories that way. The key is patience. Patience in all quantities!

Who sows as a bed

For the most part, hysterics have the ability to prevent bumps with the proper substance. But what can happen in the backdrop if you consider the histical lifestyle?Rita desperate for a phone call. They knew each other, they came to my mother's group with my little girl. I haven't heard from you again this past year. Rita tells me she's three years old Vali arranges untold histories, gets "dhroham" from just about anything, and gets a share every day. Rita is terribly depressed that she is not considered a good mother by her relatives. She already believes this, and the child blames herself for all her "mistakes." When I begin to comfort myself, the key phrase is uttered: "I didn't understand why everyone is hysterical. I know many people who behave the same way in adulthood. I am." It turns out that Rita is the type who accumulates a lot of grief and then goes crazy, quarreling, yelling, hacking. She's so sorry about Val. Of course, he has a remorse, and he can hardly reconcile the baby. At this point, we can draw two important conclusions. For one, little Vali excelled in her mother's techniques. It is well-known in psychology that its greatest impact is not on conscious educational tools (reward, punishment), but on the replicable pattern It is. If a mother (father) pursues her goals with aggression, the child will try this method as well. We will return to something. There are other reasons besides the reward: almost confirmation that the baby has become passionate about believing. Vali's behavior brings out the mother-in-law, which causes you to be distressed, and makes every effort to gain her girlfriend's forgiveness. Rita finally - unintentionally - rewards Valit the hysteria. Vali almost always calls her "mother" a mother. Like every regular three-year-old. With faith, mother can control. The big one, your nun, does nothing. But one of the goals of a three-year-old child is not to mention grandmothers and upbringing of their aunts. The little breed just focuses on her parents! ”Rita now sees the connection between things. Because it is discussed that not only is her child so "motherly", she is more likely to accept her baby, not to consider it a "clinical case" as her environment suggests. He tries to let go of his "good intentions" comments and does not blame himself for Vali's behavior. We agreed that the first child is mostly a "piece of work" that every mother tries to learn, and she learns to make some parenting mistakes. Despite all this, many first-timers have become normal people, Vali also has a good chance.

Gossip time

The beginning hist with a patient comment, replaceable offer we can stop it. ("You won't get chocolate right now, but we're cooking apples at home. You can put the duo in!") In this case, you should always follow the rules! If you are already dumb and your child is crouching on the floor, you can try distraction. ("Look what a huge duck!") The other way to get the kid up is to hug us, and, if necessary, take you away from the scene of the deed. let's know the head. It is not advisable to use it to beat, poke it on the neck, or use another Medieval educational tool. It's not a friendly procedure to shut the door. If you are punished by physical means or by abandoning yourself, it will only frighten you, but it will not clear its roots. If is an acceptable solution, so not only is the frequency of hysterics reduced. We've added a life-long sample of dispute resolution. Our grandchildren can be happy for that too!Related articles in the drone era:
  • Be patient!
  • Avoid saying no to the child
  • Do you really want to be welcomed?