Infantry is one of the most ordinary but most distinctive voices in the world. It sets everyone up for action who just hears it. The goal is to soothe the baby. But do you understand why he was being bullied?What does the baby cry for?
5 reasons why the New Year's Eve- Hungry - the baby is still in need of frequent eating, has a small stomach, and the colostrum is rapidly digested.
- Close to the body - if your mother feels warm, smells, heart-shaped, indoors, and calms down.
- Frozen - It is not advisable to relocate the baby, but at first it may be unpleasant to touch if it is undressed or bathed.
- Restless, frightened - can be triggered by rapid change of position, strong noises, pupil confusion and headache (visitors' noise).
- Something about the head - Fortunately, it rarely occurs, but various birth defects can cause long-term infant discomfort. Muscle peeling, headaches, osteoporosis, anything that can make certain postures and movements painful. Abdominal stomach does not occur in the first few weeks after birth.
Stressful backstoryOn Mondays, mothers often call breastfeeding advice because they feel the milk is running low because the baby is constantly crying. During a conversation, it turns out that his summer has been almost constant. The brothers came, or the family went to bed, mostly to the mother for the whole weekend. The jittery, bad mood that comes with it sticks your baby in unintentionally, it just makes the baby uneasy again, the stress doesn't really make the baby get enough milk, and you do a lot. Fortunately, this problem usually settles down in just a few days. Most newborn protests when you put it down and leave it, especially from the third day on, when you have a lot of patience for your birth. Easy to do: if you can suckle, fall asleep in your mother's arms or in the immediate vicinity, you will be completely happy. However, the currency does not always turn out so smoothly. If the mother is inexperienced in breastfeeding, if she is unable to breastfeed her baby because she is weaned, or if her breast milk is shorter than usual, blood harmony is sadly missed. If the first days with the baby do not go the way they are imagined, because they miss a lot, the mother's frustration and tension will increase from day to day. in particular, if it is contradicted by conflicting advice. What am I doing wrong? In this situation, troubleshooting is not the first thing to do, but rather loosening. The mother's nervousness and tension radiate to the baby. Х Reflect on exactly what you get: If you have quiet, safe peace of mind, quiet, kind words, it will become silent, easier to breastfeed, will fall asleep.
The flush and the first pitfallsIt is a Middle Eastern belief that the baby's drooling parents intend to regulate, influence. (How tiny, how marvelous it is to manipulate an entire family, says some educators.) Some require a great deal of planning and crafting on the little one. Starting from this, it is very easy to get from indulgence to the cul-de-sac of currency fear. From here it is only a leap of order, discipline, and adoration of the imagination of the adult to the little one. If your needs are met and your mother is relaxed, the baby will be relaxed as well. That is to say, he is not accustomed to an order which he himself will enter into the order which surrounds him.
Respect each other!Adapting something to the baby's needs does not mean that any agenda should be discarded. There are babies who are more reassured by certainty than by others. They can be very unbalanced and respond with a sore throat if they are overwhelmed by excessive confusion. But let's take a closer look at what permanence means to a baby! Initial conditions, wartime conditions, permanent escape, even begging for a baby can be surprisingly relaxing if you are with your mother. Certainly imaginable. No matter how surprising it may seem, a small baby does not feel much about the material good that surrounds him, the proximity of his parents means the world. If the parent keeps looking and thinking about when to kill, when to fall asleep, when to stop spitting, the baby does not feel the steadiness, but the very opposite, that they want to be released. If we treat him with respect, with love, with the time when the little one is willing to do so, we will get the same from him.
How to soothe a baby baby?- If you are wet, you do not have to hang it up, you might like to fuck it with your mom. That is, let's suck as long as it runs out of patience and as long as the little one wants (normal to average suckling for up to two months). At certain times of the day, evening jogging is a good idea if you can get breast frequently.- Wrap it in a lightweight blanket to prevent your limbs from clapping back and forth. You can reassure yourself with a craze similar to the state of the womb.- If you like to bathe, bathe it! Doing so can eliminate long lasting murmurs.- Let's change the conditions! For example, if you are taken out of the apartment to breathe outdoors, or go from light to dark, dark to light, you are out of your mind and wondering about it. Thanks to their fearfulness, even weight and refreshment, the baby can be soothed. - Intensive baby massage can help. With warm, warm, oily hands, smooth your body parts all the way, speak slowly, soothingly. - Give her name, look her in the eye, slowly and quietly explain to her where we are doing. Take it easy as if you understand everything! - Let's put on some relaxed or fast music, and dance with the baby in our arms. It is also a good idea to wrap it in a carry and wrap it around. - Try to fall asleep if you put it down. Many babies sleep exhausted and, once laid, are asleep in a minute or two. Do not indulge! Let's continue talking in a quiet, determined, reassuring way, explaining what's happening. Let's make sure we don't leave you alone.
Soothing the belly babyThere is a list of types that almost everyone thinks of, who has just seen a baby close by: Well, this is stomach fat! With its small bulging squares, squeezed hands, droopy head, throat tightness, it still barely breathes .- Breastfeed in an upright position, not leaning on the baby.- If you start eating a few minutes later: you may have been very hungry, eaten too much, and swallowed a lot of air. Take it off your breast (or your baby's breast), talk to it softly, reassuringly, massaging the back of your body as you loosen up. If the weight does not develop well, even loses it, and falls a lot, you should also think about reflux disease.- If you eat after eating: it is possible that you do not skin formula. Constipation babies have frequent constipation. It is possible that the breastfeeding baby is disturbed by the mother's milk and dairy products. Other food may also be available. Notice how regularity you can experience in the heat! Even if you drink when you eat only cooked rice, you can be sure that your mother's diet was not the reason. with certainty only he could tell if he could. Typically, the baby can be mostly silenced by the methods listed above to calm down.Other tips:
- Massage, smooth rocking and cuddling can help. In this case, the little one's hands, feet and head can loosely lick the tiny one, and be amazed at the unanimous pattern of the parquet, so it calms down.
5 reasons for the 3-6 month old baby line- Catching: Not all babies are affected, but many are very uncomfortable. Several weeks before tooth replacement, we may experience increased restlessness. Sprinkle a little sun with a pain-relieving jelly, let's put it in your hands.- Uninvited concern: Vaccines can upset the order of the day. They are a huge change for the baby's protective system. It is not uncommon for him to wake up at night, to be afraid and anxious. If your baby is crying out loud in your head in the days after vaccination, seek medical attention! They want many things, but they still haven't figured out how to get started. Therefore, they are also extremely anxious, looking for help and fun.- Pain, Illness: Think of this cause especially if your baby is unusually uncomfortable and sad. You don't always have the disease, so take it to a doctor in case of insecurity! - Homelessness in the family: the little one does much more, he feels like he has been around. Debate, quarreling, yelling can make you angry because it makes you insecure.
If the parents are tense…Dorina, a day old, always cries a lot - her mom complains, and she thinks dulutna is out of milk in the evening. As we begin to talk, I will try to find out what all this talk means. It turns out that the baby is very demented in dundel. I asked the mother to tell me what happened then. After listening to Nimi, she says that they live under the same roof with their parents, with whom her husband is very tense. He comes home more and more drunk, and foreshadows the sometimes virtually scenes.We have discussed below what could be the solution. Migration does not work. The mother cannot and does not want to confront her parents, who may be a little too frightened, but want good. The solution was brought to the court by the duluth: Dorin and her husband went to work. So he managed to get around the pub, boasted to his colleagues with his little girl, and managed to spend the whole of his trip together before returning home. Interestingly, Dorina's lines also ceased to exist.
5 reasons for the 6-12 month old baby line- Clarity, unanimity, boredom: In the second half, the baby will be very interested, open and agile. Thanks, when life is going on, and there is something to look out for, there is something to do. This does not mean you have to stack it with players. Perhaps it is less important to talk about how we do things, to show, to convey what we do, to become more and more part of our daily lives. Notice if you have a good skin, and you will only get a few days later. Despite the inscription on the box, milk powder containing high levels of cow's milk is not ideal for infant formula.- Pain / Disease: Mid-inflammation may occur soon after the first birthday. Characteristically, the baby usually wakes up at night, painfully crying, hunching over his ears. You may also be drinking when you eat, because swallowing causes him pain. Mostly fever. Give her fever and painkillers and see a doctor the next day. Communicating too quickly, too loud, can lead to horror. Do not let us be restrained, trust us when it comes to you. - You can't do what you want it to do: to push and discover the world. But he finds that almost all the interesting things are taken out of his hands, and he is always locked away by grunts. No wonder you're advertising! It is better to create a safe environment for him / her and just ban him / her for what he / she needs. We pack the most dangerous things.
One day to the other…The eight-month-old Benedict was a very calm, well-balanced baby, relaxed in the baby's or her mother's life and in the stroller. She sucked once at night and slept like a fur coat. His mother called me because he thought Benedict's behavior had changed for a few days. Poor, clumsy, you don't like anything. True, it's a bit nutty, but it still has no fat. In between, the mother felt as though the baby had less before. When she started sucking, she stopped after a few sips and just cried relentlessly. At night she woke up tiredly and didn't even want to suck. We agreed to take the little boy to a pediatrician the next day, where he found out he had mid-inflammation.
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Dashing eyesWe were looking for a baby that was especially lean and we found it! The protagonist of our April ball ball gymnastics, Gabi Kiss, still smiles brightly at the time. He doesn't even know that for three months after birth, everything will turn into a gentle consolation and doodling of a small-lined baby. On our photos, Zsuffi Panna is so month-long, balanced, smiling, beige, that is, fortunately, at a difficult time. Therefore, it is not difficult to share their experiences with readers of Maternity. We asked Tamás Rбcz, the daddy, what exactly was the problem with Panna and how he managed to calm him down. also listened. I know from Gabit that Panna usually drank nine o'clock at dawn, slept a total day in the daytime, and was silent until she sucked. Then at nine in the evening, he went to sleep and was up. I could only observe full days on weekends. The situation was completely unambiguous to me: always sucked. I thought he would calm down immediately. Feeling tired of being flushed, his feet crammed up to his stomach, spit up, so we thought his stomach might be aching. Nor did he like being undressed, he was immediately ordered. However, the kakis pelus didn't bother him. We tried all the abdominal remedies, none of them were used. He was even given a homeopathic remedies and the situation was starting to improve. But who knows what can only be done to put an end to the abdominal period. It was exactly three days old, and it seemed to take a lot of shit. Over the course of the week, of course, I tried to take my share of the consolation. Panna liked to ride her best or put her in a stroller and push her. Then, after a few weeks, the mirror became a favorite. We went ahead and tried to bring a smile to my face with all the grimace, grimace, and breccias. When I finally fell asleep, I worked with Gabi. I tried to calm him down and instill confidence in him. I wondered how terribly insecure it could be that Panna was having such a hard time with his efforts. This is both of us unexpectedly. Sometimes we were also mad at our inertia. At this time we did not poke, but I told him strictly: JOKI, it was enough !!! Unfortunately, it was of little use…
The most common commentaryAlmost everyone has a good idea about a baby called stomach. We all turn out to be a born bellywalker! Luckily, if the idea is not evil, the situation is one of the worst suggestions. It is true that until now it has not been scientifically proven that you really have stomach ache, but saying it only frustrates the parent who wants to give you some reasonable explanation, "(really on demand) breastfeeding and breast-feeding a little bit, because the digested milk doesn't mix with the digestible. Of course, because of the rapid digestibility of breast milk, we do not have to fear such things, but if you do, milk can easily mix, and the stomach is just that, the food you eat is mixed. However, extending the time between breastfeeding may result in a reduction in milk volume, in which case the diet is the following advice.
Which is really calming downIt happens that the milk breaks from the mother's breast all day, so that the baby gets formula because it sucks after breastfeeding. In those cases, it doesn't matter that they are really good at it. He gets the baby bottle, and, miraculous miracle, he calms down and falls asleep! What happened? According to these, you are breast milk, do you have stomachache? Of course not, cows' milk is no better nutrition than breast milk. However, there is an important good feature: you can see on the glass that it has something in it and how much the child eats. It has a calming effect on many parents. They make the baby feel that they have done everything that is humanly possible now. And of course, this tranquility also radiates to the little one. She does not take into account the constant alarms from the mother (muscle tension, fast breathing, hesitant movements, upset facial expression, baby's nervous rhythm). Mom's calmness tells her everything is fine.
Find the reasons!It's not easy to see clearly. Perhaps it will help if we try to answer the following questions. At home, in a family setting, you can succeed, but if you turn to a specialist, you can count on similar issues. Make a note for a few days, exactly when, in what situations your baby is crying. What do you do with it when you list it?
What is the most worrying thing about the current situation? (Many are afraid of luring the baby.) List the baby-related events, events that are annoying. Why Choose Your Tranquility Collect the factors that make you feel tired or feel good. If we do not find one, write a wish list and see the enlightenment.
"Sнrбsnaptбr"Ъjszьlцttkorban: If you have had a difficult time with your baby and have had the baby, or you may have birth problems, you may cry a lot from the start because you are very upset or in pain. This refers to the latter, if you do not want to breastfeed one of the breasts and always turns the head on only one face. These complaints disappear within a few weeks, and you should breast-feed your baby in a special position.0 to 3 months: During the first few weeks, the most painful reason for a baby is that the baby is hungry again, wants to suckle, or at least be close to her breasts and exercise. Her stomach is tiny, breast milk is quickly excreted because it can be digested very quickly. You feel safe when your mother is close by. On-demand breastfeeding also helps to reassure your baby.From 3 to 6 months: Fatigue, which can be traced back to abdominal stomachs, is largely eliminated by this time, at least three months later, the little ones cry much less. This may also be explained by the fact that they observe more of their surroundings, discover their own hands, learn to grip, rotate, not so helpless others. After giving the vaccines, it can be assumed that the little one will be thicker, you can complain to him if he presses on the foot where he got the filter.From 6 to 9 months: During this period, most babies will bear it badly if their mother disappears from the diet. You are scared of strangers because you are perfectly aware of who you belong to. If we leave the neighborhood and emerge, we can be reassured if we speak to it.12 to 24 days: We have changed when the drone era comes out, but we can be prepared to take a lot of patience. He is able to express his convictions more and more, but he will bear it badly if he cannot do what he wants.Above school age: Most toddlers can tell you exactly what's wrong, and we can deal with it relatively easily in disputes.
Best consolation is suckingElizabeth Elizabeth she swears by the power of soothing and comforting breastfeeding. Kislбnyai, Xiomara (3) and Valentina (1,5) are happy to breastfeed both together and abroad.
- Breastfeeding is the best calming method - both for my child. Even at one time. After all, if one has to be comforted and suckling for a little while, then surely the other one will suddenly find herself a bib, which will make her desperately need a little nipple and a little breast milk. this is a reassurance that I dare not bathe or swim before, as I can be sure that they will immediately have a small tits. When my big one was one year old, he just wanted to sleep before he fell asleep. That's right, I didn't have much milk. When I became pregnant again, milk suddenly increased, and she was very pleased. Morning, afternoon, evening - Blland just wanted to drink this. And she was quite surprised when her little brother arrived, and suddenly she had to share not only her mother but her mother's milk. But she was slowly accustomed to being able to come and breastfeed at the same time. Breastfeeding was very good even when my big dummy bump started, which was the only way I could suppress it.
He sighs against rustlingVas Jбnosné Szilvia Хry And her six-week-old son, Roland, always goes out for a walk when they have a cool day.
- If Rolandon was cool, we'd always be here. If I put it in the stroller, it will forget all its troubles, even though it's time for feeding and it's very hungry. In those minutes, the car shakes you in a matter of minutes, and as long as you feel it move, there's nothing wrong. All he wants now is to get in the car, leave the city and go down to our summer site. There I put the baby under the cherry tree, in a shady, sheltered place, cover it with mosquito and even sleep in it. We never get to sleep like that in our city. And when you wake up, it doesn't even require my company, looking at moving letters, playing with light.
Little Christmas, big shitTo Zsolt Batki all she needed was to persuade a seven-month-old girl named Borsika, who was so motherly that she hadn't accepted any consolation from her father.
- When Bornborka, my three-year-old great-grandmother, was born, my wife was anesthetized for cesarean section, so I was the first one to hang on for a little longer. I did not go much - the couple of minutes of the Newborn just yelled and yelled frustrated.But later, home help was very helpful. My wife was fatigued by the events, which I only said was that Bornborough often sobbed at night again. He only calmed down when I put my belly down on my forearm and walked with it. In this case, I invented an anesthetic for him, rubbing tales in his ear. To this day, he is very father. I thought it would be easy for me to have a routine nun with the newborn, but Borsika made it clear from the first minute that she needed a mother. Only and exclusively. Mom rock it, make it clear, sing to it. If I woke up after waking up, because my wife, exhausted after the night's breastfeeding, would still be sleepy, yelping. When her mother stepped on the bed, she was happily giggling and demanding a baby. After a while, I got tired of inventing new things to brighten up my baby boy, so I always started to sing the same song to him. Little Christmas, big Christmas. Today, we are in the process of telling Borsika to stop and go to bed immediately. It worked so well that last week, I saw my wife "thwarted" my method, and look wonderful! "Slinky" has worked better than breastfeeding!
Hysterical seizureThe three-year-old Ancsa Schmidt Anikу her fourth child. Perhaps that is why her mother was not in trouble when her baby sobbed so much that she forgot to breathe.
- Ancsa was two months old when she first got such a hysterical attack that she got out of oxygen. He was very shy, and he was very tired, and I really had to pee. I rocked it, rocked it, and when I saw that I was completely flushed, I put it in the bed and ran to the toilet. As soon as I was put to bed, he began to hysterically yell, but I was not alarmed, but suddenly there was complete silence. As I rushed back, I realized that my plum had become my breath and did not breathe. Fortunately, when I got up, he sighed tremendously, and his breathing started again. The doctor said, believe me, it will grow, and the less we deal with it, the sooner the whole will end. As the bastion of the three is well older, they have been happy to help babysit their baby. But, of course, the list cannot be completely eliminated. The next blush came because of post-vaccination anxiety, and simply because he did not receive the desired game immediately. When he started to rush again two years ago, and I heard he was taking a strange breath, I didn't get there in time to calm him down. I was in the kitchen when I heard a knock on the floor. I thought, for now anyway, let's do it as if nothing had happened. When Ancsa woke up and asked what had happened, I said nothing. He's never lost his mind - he realized that this is not a good business unless he is liberated by the whole family. You should also learn how to solve your own problems alone.These may also be of interest to you: