For a small child, the concept of sharing is completely unknown. The following 5 tips will help you understand what this whole thing means and why it is good for him.
In time, you will learn to share
Is your little boy's playmate going to come to you? You have a lot of games and no matter what the playground swallows, your little one will hit you right away, even if you know he doesn't like that game? The fight begins and the place for fun and laughter will soon be replaced by gossip and ease - read Today's Parent.Do you know it? Don't worry, it's not just nonsense. Most kids do not understand the term "something in common use". Rather, we know what "mine" means. Sharing is one learned behavior, the child is overwhelmed when his / her social, emotional and cognitive skills reach this level. Most young children do not even understand what it means to share something. If you want something, you take it so simple. However, an educator is already able to share, and a young child of four can imagine himself or herself in the position of his or her playmate. Ask him, "what would you feel if your friend had a lot of games but didn't give you one?" A grown-up child understands this, explaining it to a two-year-old is not easy. For example, if you need to share it at a game, it means that one child and the other can play with it. If a biscuit is used, it means that the half of the biscuit you have given will never be returned to the child. It is important that the parents say exactly.But why do we want our children to share? Many times we only insist on sharing because we feel confused when our child does not give the play to a play club. In these cases, it is better not to force the thing. Instead of persuading your child to give the game to someone else, do the following: 1. Get started in time. Beginning with your baby's ability to grab an object, play with it by asking for it and then returning it and saying "now it's mine", "now it's yours". This is the first step of learning to share.2. Show me an example. Practice sharing at home, playfully. Tell him to share a couch in exchange for a treat, or eat an ice cream together: "one for you, one for me" .3. Be careful with your company. Corporate games, racing good. But it may not be good games for 3-year-olds where there is only one winner. Choose a game that has no losers but only winners. Make sure you have a stopwatch when it comes to spoofing. When the time is up and your hour is up, your child will have to give the play to his or her friend. When your friend's time is up, he or she returns the game and so on.5. Praise me for sharing something. And not just say "you are very good boy" but say, "Did you see how crazy your friend was when you gave him the truck? He liked it so much!" If you put it this way, you will call attention to the details and what a nice thing you did when you shared the game.Related Articles:
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